my schoolmate threaten me

[kinz]

first,my english is not good,you may can not understand what l mean.

my schoolmate A,he is studying in ClassB and l am studying in ClassD.this man is very very very arrogant and his home is rich,l and he is a forum site member.schoolmate A always deride me in forum,however,l did nothing wrong,one day ,l derided him.After that,he said:

"don't perform as professional in front of me,l know more friends than you.
p.s don't think to deride me,l am afraid that you can't return to home,you will come to hospital directly,l will realize what l said."


what can l do now ?

[Nug]

Challenge him to a knife fight.. then bring a gun :p

[Keagle]

Or, challenge him to a game of checkers.

[kinz]

he knows gangland member

[Nug]

that sucks :/

Is he really such a bad guy?

Cant you say your sorry?

[kinz]

that sucks :/

Is he really such a bad guy?

Cant you say your sorry?


his family is running business,therefore he is extremely arrogant and he think his opinion is right,other 's opinion are wrong
l did nothing wrong really,l will not say sorry
he deride me a lots groundless and l said "you is just a small potatoes in my mind" than he threaten me

l am considering that send email to police or take a snap of the email to warn him

[Nug]

you should get a restaining order or something?

[Richard]

Ignore it.

If he does do it again, make a joke, for example:

"I never knew you felt that way :) Thanks mate"

If he does it to your face, just smile at him and walk away, never show emotion or respond with a pun or insult as thats what he wants.

[Decker]

Either report it to the school initially & the police

or

next time he's standing in front of you threatening slowly look directly upwards, he will follow suit and then kick him solidly where it hurts the most - regardless of 'connections' it will make him think twice about doing it again.

Bloody hate bullies.

[Craig]

Stand up for yourself!, police & anti-bullying my arse!.

[jahed]

do nothing, let him bully you and also let him knock you out!!!

[Decker]

Stand up for yourself!, police & anti-bullying my arse!.

So you agree with my second option then Craig :beer:

[Yun]

Ignore him. Simple - don't react or anything, just walk away.

[iBrightDev]

you can try what i did to a guy that tried to mess with me. i threw him in a headlock, droped him to the ground, and stuck my finger in his eye, and told him in a calming but threatening manner that if he tried to mess with me again that I would break both his legs before he knew what happened.

he started to cry and didnt try to do anything ever again. :D

another instance, i purposely provoked a bully just to show him i wasnt scared of him (gang ties too), and he tried to "----- slap" me, but i blocked it, adn he got mad. then he got in my face, and i just kept sitting on the bench. he kept trying to get me to get up and fight him, but i would just sit there and tell him to try it again. he wouldnt because i showed no fear in my face or in my voice. the next time i saw him, he tried to act like it never happened and wanted to be buddy buddy with me. (freaking wimp)

so, moral of the story is, never show fear to him in any way. if you do, he will use that to his advantage. just get a really mean look on your face like you dont give a crap, and stand your ground. you might need to be ready to fight though depending on his rep and who is around. and if it comes to a fight, let him start it, but, you need to finish it. just dont stop till he is really hurt.

i know it is not good to encourage fighting, but, if you are a guy, that is normally the only way to ever really stop another guy from messing with you. you could try the police route, but, that will probably make him mad, and, then it will show you are a wimp, and he will either come after you anyways, or, he will send friends after you. and at least if you beat him up, and he sends friends after you and you get beat up after that, at least it will show that you arent afraid of him, and he wont want to personally mess with you ever again. sorry, but the ignore him and walk away crap never works. i have tried since i really dont like fighting, and all it did was make the bully mess with me more. once i stood my ground, they wouldnt mess with me again. so, that may or may not be your solution.

[jahed]

methodcomptech, im not being rude but i dont think you did all that just to show him that you are not scared!!!

[iBrightDev]

ask me if i care what you think. go on, ask. see, the thing is, i am not being rude either, but, YOU DONT KNOW ME! so, why dont you keep your mouth shut when you dont know what you are talking about. i could be a pysco killer for all you know. i am not, but, you dont know. i dont lie, and i dont embellish on the truth, so, take it or leave it, but dont ever tell me again what i have and havent done.

[Karlo S]

Kick his f***** --- !

[Craig]

So you agree with my second option then Craig :beer:

Sure do Captain :beer:

[Decker]

Sure do Captain :beer:

Even the meanest respect a good rattle in the clacker bag........ :evilb:

If you best them by being clever enough for them to fall for it then you win twice.

After all who wants it a second time? And I don't want any movie titles you've seen that go against that! :eek3:

[iBrightDev]

lol, thanks for the insight decker. :P

[Decker]

lol, thanks for the insight decker. :P
Age and experience telling :fangel:

[iBrightDev]

same here.

*off topic*
BTW, how old are you. just curious

[[ih]Demetris]

Bullies wont stop because you get authorities involved. Sometimes that can make it worse..Stand up for you self, once he see that your not going to back down hell back off. Most bullies are just emotionally confused little pricks...Follow Deckers advice and give him a swift kick in the go-nads...:D

[iBrightDev]

that is pretty much where i was going with my long story. :p

[[ih]Demetris]

LOL +1 mate ive always hated these type of kids..freakin brats...unfortuantely theres a new batch of them born everyday and even sadder is most of them grow up and get into law enforcement (LOL JK About the last part)

[Decker]

(LOL JK About the last part)

What really :eek3: it's a prerequisite for most :lol:

Actually I know a couple of very good officers that started off as bullies and had the seven colours of knocked out of them, realised there is always someone bigger than you. Reformed a treat to pay back and more.

[[ih]Demetris]

LOL so do i mate, quite a few bullies i went to high school with are now cops lol its hilarious to see them now days...maybe i should be nice to them so i dont get so many tickets lol

[Decker]

LOL so do i mate, quite a few bullies i went to high school with are now cops lol its hilarious to see them now days...maybe i should be nice to them so i dont get so many tickets lol

Always a good move :fangel: actually they tend to be more understanding.

[Chris L.]

google search: define: Decker
Decker: One who decks someone who is being an asshat.
google search: deck
Deck: to punch someone is to deck them
google search: asshat
Asshat: a big -------


Decker, we all know where you got your name.
;-)
C


and Kinz, just kick his butt.

[Decker]

google search: define: Decker
Decker: One who decks someone who is being an asshat.
google search: deck
Deck: to punch someone is to deck them
google search: asshat
Asshat: a big -------


Decker, we all know where you got your name.
;-)
C


and Kinz, just kick his butt.

Wasn't the reason that for years I've used it, but well done, it is a particularly Scottish term true.

'Deck im ya bass!!' Standard Argyll Street call when no alcohol or kebab present.

[iBrightDev]

lol, i love it. thanks for the laugh Decker. would give +rep, but cant yet.

[Decker]

My aim is to please :)

I just hope Kinz is feeling better with the support from here.

[Chris L.]

well on one shoulder, he has Jesus (just ignore), and on the other, he has Satin (kick that asshat's ---)

[themoose]

What'sup asshat.

[Darknight]

kick him in the nutz.
recored it and post it on youtube ;)

[krakjoe]

If you reckon this guy is arrogant because of the business his family are tied too, then the simplest method to shut him up would be to destroy that business, fire works well .......

[Karlo S]

If you reckon this guy is arrogant because of the business his family are tied too, then the simplest method to shut him up would be to destroy that business, fire works well .......


:eek3: or break his fingers and jaw / same effect less material damage :lol:

[Cam.]

I vote kick him as hard as you can, claim it was self defense and then go to anti-bullying and get him in trouble :P

[oates151]

do nothing, let him bully you and also let him knock you out!!!

Great idea jackass!


methodcomptech, im not being rude but i dont think you did all that just to show him that you are not scared!!!

who the hell are you to judge? you don't know him, stop being an ill-mannered moron

[iBrightDev]

haha, thanks for the laugh.

[kinz]

l shuted up and he did nothing
l will not talk to him in my life again

[iBrightDev]

hopefully that is the end of it. good luck.

[Decker]

Well done, good luck kinz :wave:

[stuffradio]

Challenge him to a game of chess, kick him in the balls and run away! :D

[Decker]

Better late than never stuff :lol:

[TSO]

l shuted up and he did nothing
l will not talk to him in my life again

That's probably the best thing to do! (...though I must admit some of the response to this thread were down-right hilarious!)

[Galaxy-Hosts.com]

l shuted up and he did nothing
l will not talk to him in my life again Good job, that is probably the best thing you could have done.

That said, I would have walked up to him, while he in eye shot of his friends, and stared him down. If he so much as put a finger on me, he would have met the set of brass knucks in my pocket. I would not hit him just once, I would make a good show of it.

[Webdude]

I used to pick on bullies..lol

Seriously. Throw a brick thru his bedroom window at 2AM monday night with a note "YOU'RE DEAD PUNK!"

He'll be so scared wondering who is after him, he will either ignore you or befriend you.

[Kwek]

I used to pick on bullies..lol

Seriously. Throw a brick thru his bedroom window at 2AM monday night with a note "YOU'RE DEAD PUNK!"

He'll be so scared wondering who is after him, he will either ignore you or befriend you.
Or maybe he'll decide to vent all his anger on you after receiving that note.