Girls like Bad boys?

[The Red Guy]

There's a chinese saying that goes "Nan ren bu huai, niu ren bu ai". Meaning girls love bad boys. Is it true in real life? For me it's really like the idiom, the girls show interest in bad boys and infamous ones, ignoring those good ones who hide behind books.

[tandoc]

its true - nowadays - i know - i hide behind books :cry2: :p :cool: :( :) :D ;) :mad: :biggrin2: :devious2:

[Daniel]

Ever seen the movie Romeo Must Die? 'nuff said.

[The Red Guy]

But aren't good boys meant for girls? (at least in novels)

[Majin]

I only watched the action in Romeo must die.:D I don't hide behind books. And I am pretty smart.:D

[Ben]

Originally posted by Majin
I don't hide behind books. And I am pretty smart.:D

[The Red Guy]

Then what about the good guys who either

1) Don't hide behind books, but rather hang out with those cool dudes;

2) Interact with the girls and become an idolised figure

[MN-Carl]

Hello,

Abit of both is best :p

[Archbob]

And those who fall for "bad boys" usually end up poor.

[Akalon]

Originally posted by Archbob
And those who fall for "bad boys" usually end up poor.

Are you implying that females aren't self-sufficient? :p

[syd]

Hmm it's true to an extent. But the novelty wears off and most girls grow up... some never do (see: maury povich's paternity talk shows)

[LeX]

Originally posted by The Red Guy
There's a chinese saying that goes "Nan ren bu huai, niu ren bu ai". Meaning girls love bad boys. Is it true in real life? For me it's really like the idiom, the girls show interest in bad boys and infamous ones, ignoring those good ones who hide behind books. It's basically true, I think. Nobody really likes the goody-good-shoes... at least I don't.

If you don't stand out in a crowd, you don't stand a chance. Usually, those who lay low and act all quiet and stuff are those who are ignored by girls.

At least that's how it generally is here. ;) Of course there are exceptions...

[Archbob]

Well, usually a bad husband will drag a wife down with him. Females are capable of being self-sufficient , but the smart ones usually don't like the "bad boys" cause there smart enough to look after their future.

[allanh]

usually, those girls who like bad boys are bad themselves. Personally, I will put "education level' before everything when I choose a wife.

[syd]

Originally posted by allanh
usually, those girls who like bad boys are bad themselves. Personally, I will put "education level' before everything when I choose a wife.

Even before personality :confused:

[The Red Guy]

The girls here go for the guys with an attitute, and most importantly the one who's most able to flirt.

[Gayowulf]

girls go for bad boys as much as boys go for bad girls.

i think anyways.

[nitroboy]

Originally posted by Gayowulf
girls go for bad boys as much as boys go for bad girls.

i think anyways. bad boys here go for sluts :biggrin2:

[Daniel]

Originally posted by Majin
I only watched the action in Romeo must die.:D I don't hide behind books. And I am pretty smart.:D

I'm talking about at the beginning. :D

[jurupa]

Most girls I seen try to impress the outstanding boys with un lets say interesting ways. My self I am quite, but with my hight I do get girls flirting, so it depends on the girl.

I read this arcitle in Newsweek about girls in generl (an no it had nothing to do with them being smart than us boys). It talk about alpha, beta and gama girls. It was quit interesting. The aplha girls are the ones that must be popluar all the time. The beta ones try to either be the alpha ones or are the followers. Gama ones don't care if they are popluar are not.

Some times girls can be so hard to understand.

[98125]

Some times girls can be so hard to understand.

So true. Especially the ones that go to my school

Mullin

[Archbob]

Wait, Is Jurupa really Yupapa Version 2.0 ?

[tandoc]

is it just me or is this an all-guy conversation?

[Akalon]

Originally posted by jurupa
Some times girls can be so hard to understand.

So ----ing true.

[jurupa]

:biggrin2: :biggrin2: :D :D :D :biggrin2: :biggrin2:

[Jan]

Originally posted by tandoc
is it just me or is this an all-guy conversation?
syd has replied in this thread...but the topic is probably not worth replying to anyway. :confused2

[Archbob]

All guys maybe and one squirrel.

[The Red Guy]

Originally posted by jurupa
Most girls I seen try to impress the outstanding boys with un lets say interesting ways. My self I am quite, but with my hight I do get girls flirting, so it depends on the girl.

I read this arcitle in Newsweek about girls in generl (an no it had nothing to do with them being smart than us boys). It talk about alpha, beta and gama girls. It was quit interesting. The aplha girls are the ones that must be popluar all the time. The beta ones try to either be the alpha ones or are the followers. Gama ones don't care if they are popluar are not.

Some times girls can be so hard to understand. For us here the girls don't flirt. They wait for people to flirt at them. :confused2


syd has replied in this thread...but the topic is probably not worth replying to anyway. ???

[Jan]

Originally posted by The Red Guy
???
What I meant was that the girls here don't think it is worth replying to because it is a load of rubbish :p

[Majin]

Also, you can never win an arguement with a girl. So damn frustrating when your right..:angry2:

And, yes, the start of Romeo Must Die was AWESOME!!! I could watch that over and over and over and over and over and over and you get the idea.. It was soooooo good..

[Daniel]

Originally posted by Majin


And, yes, the start of Romeo Must Die was AWESOME!!! I could watch that over and over and over and over and over and over and you get the idea.. It was soooooo good..

I think the best part is when Jet Li was playing football. :biggrin2:

[The Red Guy]

Originally posted by Jan

What I meant was that the girls here don't think it is worth replying to because it is a load of rubbish :p Load of rubbish? Maybe the girls out there are different, I dont know.

[Jan]

It might appear to you young bucks at the moment that it is correct, but once you gain a bit more condidence in yourself, the girls will notice the good guys too. As LeX said, they tend to go for the boys more outgoing (in your opinion, the bad boys), but that will all change as you mature, then the bad boys are on the outer! :classic2:

[tandoc]

there is no point making the neglected feel any better... :cry2:

:D

y r u asking this anyway TheRedGuy?

is there a certain someone... :p

[The Red Guy]

Yes, the boys from next class are extremely able at flirting. Now all the girls go very excited when they see him. But all he does is all action those kindda things.

[nitroboy]

Originally posted by Jan
It might appear to you young bucks at the moment that it is correct, but once you gain a bit more condidence in yourself, the girls will notice the good guys too. As LeX said, they tend to go for the boys more outgoing (in your opinion, the bad boys), but that will all change as you mature, then the bad boys are on the outer! :classic2: Jan so you mean that soon I won't get any girl anymore? :confused2 :biggrin2:

[The Red Guy]

Originally posted by Jan
It might appear to you young bucks at the moment that it is correct, but once you gain a bit more condidence in yourself, the girls will notice the good guys too. As LeX said, they tend to go for the boys more outgoing (in your opinion, the bad boys), but that will all change as you mature, then the bad boys are on the outer! :classic2: May I know how you know that? :confused:

[Jan]

Originally posted by The Red Guy
May I know how you know that? :confused:
Observation and life experience :bandit2:

[The Red Guy]

Originally posted by Jan

Observation and life experience :bandit2: Off topic: How old are you anyway?

[Jan]

Older than you! :p So what I say is correct....you might thank me for my wise words in a couple of years :biggrin2:

[The Red Guy]

Originally posted by Jan
Older than you! :p So what I say is correct....you might thank me for my wise words in a couple of years :biggrin2: I should think so. Guess I'm sort of young, my mentality's different from you guys!

[tandoc]

Originally posted by Jan

Observation and life experience :bandit2:

ur just trying to save the young before what happened to u happens to them [j/k] don't ban me!!!!



Last edited by tandoc on 09-19-2002 at 06:08 AM

[nitroboy]

Originally posted by Jan
Older than you! :p So what I say is correct....you might thank me for my wise words in a couple of years :biggrin2: and any experiences with bad boys? :confused:

[Jan]

Originally posted by nitroboy
and any experiences with bad boys? :confused:
My lips are sealed :normal2:

[Majin]

Originally posted by Daniel


I think the best part is when Jet Li was playing football. :biggrin2:

LOL! He smashed em all! One man team. LOL! And he calls Jet Li, Dim Sum, and they call Moris Moron.. Lol... MY NAME'S MORIS!

[allanh]

Originally posted by syd


Even before personality :confused:


personality comes close second and looks comes a distant third

[The Red Guy]

Let's face it: Would you ask an ugly but kind girl out? No! That's why men are liars when they say personality's the first.

[conkermaniac]

Originally posted by The Red Guy
Let's face it: Would you ask an ugly but kind girl out? No! That's why men are liars when they say personality's the first.

Now I would do just that. I hate pretty girls, as 99% of the time, they are sluts. All the girls in my school like the "cool" guys. They don't like people like me, with good grades and a calm personality, but rather those guys who hang out with the "group" and listen to supposedly "cool" music. None of these people in our school can get even decent grades. :confused2

[The Red Guy]

Originally posted by conkermaniac

Now I would do just that. I hate pretty girls, as 99% of the time, they are sluts. All the girls in my school like the "cool" guys. They don't like people like me, with good grades and a calm personality, but rather those guys who hang out with the "group" and listen to supposedly "cool" music. None of these people in our school can get even decent grades. :confused2 Same here. But I do like pretty girls, and they go for those popular guys, but break off after weeks!