Help needed

[Wojtek]

Hey all,

It's my ex-gf's bd next week and I dunno what to do.

I've been sending her bd cards for the past 2 years and I'm a lil confused about this year.

Should I just send her a bd card as usual, or also buy her a gift?
I wanna invite her to prom this year, but I don't want to buy her by sending a gift for her bd.

What should I do?
Card or Card/Gift? :confused2

Opinions/Suggestions needed

[Gayowulf]

just act like it's any other day, and don't bring up the subject of her birthday.

should go over well.



IMO, by getting her a gift you'd not be "buying" her. It's a birthday. birthday=gifts.

Card+Gift (nothing too extravagant) and maybe a flower or two.

[Blank Verse]

I think I would avoid the flowers...I'm not sure if you're trying to get her back or anything, but in any case, that might freak her out. But yeah, it's her birthday. If you're buying her a birthday present, there's no way it can be suspicious.

[Gayowulf]

and aboot prom... It's not really that big of a deal. Asking someone to go with you doesn't necessarily mean anything special.

I know that because I had girls throwing themselves at me before prom, and then maybe saying a total of 16 words to me over the next week.

[Blank Verse]

Originally posted by Gayowulf
and aboot prom... It's not really that big of a deal. Asking someone to go with you doesn't necessarily mean anything special.

I know that because I had girls throwing themselves at me before prom, and then maybe saying a total of 16 words to me over the next week.

Do girls go for booty calls? :p

[Gayowulf]

Let's just say that being the valedictorian got me farther than the regular old graduate :D

[Blank Verse]

Originally posted by Gayowulf
Let's just say that being the valedictorian got me farther than the regular old graduate :D

yup...let's definitely not say more than that.

[Gayowulf]

I'd actually get a chance to hear a yes/no answer before being threatened by some thug boyfriend. that's about it.

I didn't want to let you all draw your own dirty conclusions.

[Blank Verse]

Originally posted by Gayowulf
I'd actually get a chance to hear a yes/no answer before being threatened by some thug boyfriend. that's about it.

I didn't want to let you all draw your own dirty conclusions.

well, you didn't get farther than this regular old graduate then...I too avoided physical harm

[Wojtek]

Originally posted by Blank Verse
I think I would avoid the flowers...I'm not sure if you're trying to get her back or anything, but in any case, that might freak her out. But yeah, it's her birthday. If you're buying her a birthday present, there's no way it can be suspicious.
We broke up caus she moved too far away and it would be impossible to keep up. (8 hours by car from here:() And I'm not sure because i've always sent her only birthday cards upto now. If I'd send her a bd gift now, and ask her to come to prom, she would suspect something and for x reason thing I'm trying to "buy" her by sending her a gift.

What would you suggest?
Card or Card/Gift.

And if Card/Gift, what gift should I get her? (price range dosnt mather)

[Blank Verse]

Man, if I could be in a situation where cost didn't matter...

No matter how you look at it, you are not trying to "buy" her by getting her a birthday present, even if you only usually get her a card. People get presents on their birthdays, that's what they do.

I wouldn't suggest asking her to the prom on her birthday...I don't know if that was your intent... you've still got a little while to wait before your prom, I assume, therefore you can play it cool.

As for a birthday present, I don't know the girl, I have no idea what she likes/dislikes, etc, etc...I think you have to figure that one out on your own. I probably wouldn't get something too expensive.

I'm just waiting for a girl here on the board to pipe in just how bad and wrong all my advice is...

[Wojtek]

Originally posted by Blank Verse
Man, if I could be in a situation where cost didn't matter...

No matter how you look at it, you are not trying to "buy" her by getting her a birthday present, even if you only usually get her a card. People get presents on their birthdays, that's what they do.

I wouldn't suggest asking her to the prom on her birthday...I don't know if that was your intent... you've still got a little while to wait before your prom, I assume, therefore you can play it cool.

As for a birthday present, I don't know the girl, I have no idea what she likes/dislikes, etc, etc...I think you have to figure that one out on your own. I probably wouldn't get something too expensive.

I'm just waiting for a girl here on the board to pipe in just how bad and wrong all my advice is...
Ok Blank,

I was planning to get her a gift anyway, but didnt know if she'd link it to the prom, anyway.

When Should I ask her about the prom?
It's on June 26th.

The only prob left is how she'll get here. Shes in Windsor, Im in Montreal, neither of us has a driving licence. Even If I'd start right away I'd only get my full on mid-july, a month too late :confused2
Should I go pick her up on my temp license or theres another "magic" way to make her appear in montreal, lol


Gee, I must sound like a stupid retard, lol


You mentioneed to get her something not too expensive. What price range is this?

[Daniel]

Originally posted by Blank Verse
I'm just waiting for a girl here on the board to pipe in just how bad and wrong all my advice is...[/size]

ROTFLMAO

I second Blank's advice.