Anyone know of a good free customized chatroom?

I want a free customized chatroom to add to my website - LetsGoOutNY.com. I have tried tons of them and they are either too slow or they look horrible. I run a slick looking, hip website and I need a smooth working very good looking customizable chat room. PLEASE HELP ME!! Has anyone found a good one?

I was in this same problem, and while I didn't find a good chat that was customizable, I'm pretty happy with quickchat.org. But if you have a server that allows for java servlets, I'd highly recommend NFC chat - I can't remember the URL, but do a search on NFC in hotscripts.com and you might find something there.

http://www.everysoft.com - Everychat 3.6

Not sure if you are still looking but ralfs chat is the best free chat script around just go to http://ralfchat.de/ and look for yourself.

I don't know if they still sell this, but visit
http://www.empirechat.net

Are any of those you mentioned romotely hosted? I am looking for a chat room myself, which is romotely hosted. The only ones I know of are Bravenet and Beseen and I dislike both of them