1- Spaceports does it, also multimania.com. If it isn't for a big database (suchs likes forum's ones) http://www.iespana.es + http://www.freesql.org'll work fine.
2- I have just start a thread with the same question, help for both of us. http://www.netfirms.com/ I think that would helpyou.
3-ummm, it's most hard to find, maybe host.ru I think, but... babelfish needed for shure.