Déjà vu: So I just ended

**Nick** · October 21st, 2007, 23:56

My longest relationship. One year and eleven months that felt like ten times that.

I, too, feel like ----, but it had to happen.

So here I am, 21 and single. All my best friends have wives and/or are older.

I don't even think I know more than a couple single people.

Lots of re-figuring things out in my immediate future.

**serverorigin** · October 21st, 2007, 23:58

=( Kind of sucks...Just be happy you got out now, the longer it lasts the harder it is. Good luck bro.

**Blank Verse** · October 22nd, 2007, 00:00

21 and single is a good place to be man, even if the circumstances that got you there are ----ty.

Time heals all wounds, and at your age, you have A LOT of time before it's too late for you to do anything anymore.

**Cam.** · October 22nd, 2007, 00:01

I hope it gets better for you

**Darknight** · October 22nd, 2007, 00:43

Would be easyer if life didnt have love in it.
Things are ment to get better acording to relationship people.

**Nick** · October 22nd, 2007, 01:03

Originally Posted by Blank Verse

21 and single is a good place to be man, even if the circumstances that got you there are ----ty.

While I am upset about it, I'm kind of excited by the idea of a fresh start now that the initial shock has worn off (things started going downhill last week, it just ended for good today).

**iBrightDev** · October 22nd, 2007, 01:27

dont worry Nick, i felt the same way when i was 20, and had just gotten out of a serious relationship, and just before i turned 21, i met my wife to be while skateboarding at the local skate park. we have now been together for almost 4 years, and have been married for almost 2 years, and things could not be any better. you will meet someone when you least expect it. keep you chin up, and don't stress over it. i know it is easier said than done, but, do a lot of senseless dating and messing around till you get over her. it helps.

**Gipo_dinamia** · October 22nd, 2007, 09:13

Don't worry, eevrything will be O'k and you'll meet the only person sooner or late. Be patient.

**Matt8** · October 23rd, 2007, 11:44

Sorry to hear that nick, but make a point to enjoy a bit of single life here in the upcoming weeks. It can be refreshing.

**Blank Verse** · October 23rd, 2007, 22:00

Also...pints. Lots and lots of pints. Let's all go get one right now.

**Nick** · October 23rd, 2007, 22:15

I went out on a date tonight and had a lot of fun.

I'm going to a party this weekend with some new friends, hopefully will meet some more girls there.

Just moving on.