Everyone else here gets to do it, why can't I? For some reason I value and trust the advice of SOME of you here, so this is why I'm posting, despite the fact that I have to be up in 3 hours for work.
So there are two girls in play here.
Girl A is a good friend, but I've always harboured feelings for her. She's kind of my dream girl. You know how everyone always says they want the smart, funny girl, all the things of substance, but secretly they also really want a girl with big guns? Well, this girl is the complete package, and she does just make me happy. But we've always just been friends. However, lately, I'm just getting the sense that maybe she's reciprocating the feelings a little bit. It's hard to explain here, but I can just feel it, you know?
But you can understand why I'm treading slowly here. I don't want to jump the gun and make my move before she's come around to the whole idea.
Girl B, is a friend as well, cool chick. She's coming into town this weekend, and basically, she's looking to get ----ed. She called me today and just let fly with the dirty talk, and I, like an idiot, went along with it. I knew it was wrong, but it's hard having a girl telling you all these things she wants to do to you without being curious to see where she's going with it.
The dillemas are many. I'd normally totally go for the booty call, because I'm kind of a pig sometimes. But obviously there are circumstances in play here, given my feelings for Girl A. Like I said, I don't want to mess this up.
But Girl B is a friend too, and she's expecting something from me. I don't want to do it now, but I'm worried about the backlash of a woman scorned. Girl A and Girl B have some mutual friends, and girls talk, know what I mean? Basically, I need you guys to convince me to do the right thing and not jump in the sack with Girl B, but help me find a way to do it without making her mad or like a useless piece of meat. Because I don't want her to feel cheap or anything. And, more selfishly, I wouldn't want her talking smack about me to Girl A.
Is there any good way to do this?
So there are two girls in play here.
Girl A is a good friend, but I've always harboured feelings for her. She's kind of my dream girl. You know how everyone always says they want the smart, funny girl, all the things of substance, but secretly they also really want a girl with big guns? Well, this girl is the complete package, and she does just make me happy. But we've always just been friends. However, lately, I'm just getting the sense that maybe she's reciprocating the feelings a little bit. It's hard to explain here, but I can just feel it, you know?
But you can understand why I'm treading slowly here. I don't want to jump the gun and make my move before she's come around to the whole idea.
Girl B, is a friend as well, cool chick. She's coming into town this weekend, and basically, she's looking to get ----ed. She called me today and just let fly with the dirty talk, and I, like an idiot, went along with it. I knew it was wrong, but it's hard having a girl telling you all these things she wants to do to you without being curious to see where she's going with it.
The dillemas are many. I'd normally totally go for the booty call, because I'm kind of a pig sometimes. But obviously there are circumstances in play here, given my feelings for Girl A. Like I said, I don't want to mess this up.
But Girl B is a friend too, and she's expecting something from me. I don't want to do it now, but I'm worried about the backlash of a woman scorned. Girl A and Girl B have some mutual friends, and girls talk, know what I mean? Basically, I need you guys to convince me to do the right thing and not jump in the sack with Girl B, but help me find a way to do it without making her mad or like a useless piece of meat. Because I don't want her to feel cheap or anything. And, more selfishly, I wouldn't want her talking smack about me to Girl A.
Is there any good way to do this?
