I am 20 years old. I've been dating this girl happily for 3.5 years. Pretty much everyone in my family likes her more than me...she is nicer. We had been arguing a lot lately and she kept getting pissed at me when I would do stuff without her. Like last night I went out to a bar and there was a band playing the whole time so I never got to call her and the weekend before I hung out with a friend rather than her...it's more detailed than all that of course but bottom line, we haven't been getting along.
I've also, although I've kept this to myself, felt that I absolutely do not want to get married, ever, to anyone. It just isn't my thing. I have felt this way for a long time, I mentioned it to her once but tonight after we had a "talk" I had to express that.
So it turned into this whole "Well I can't be with someone who doesn't want to be married" but neither of us have the "balls" to actually say "well should we break up"
Eventually after her crying for about an hour we decided that we should split-up.
It pisses me off, why can't we just agree. we aren't compatible like that. Now her friends are going to hate me cause I am a ---- and ultimately I'll lose her as a friend.
I can accept that. I suppose the hard part is that, except from a few friends, I have no support. My mom, ironically, just came into my room yelling at me saying how I don't treat her well enough and crap.
anyway...
I've also, although I've kept this to myself, felt that I absolutely do not want to get married, ever, to anyone. It just isn't my thing. I have felt this way for a long time, I mentioned it to her once but tonight after we had a "talk" I had to express that.
So it turned into this whole "Well I can't be with someone who doesn't want to be married" but neither of us have the "balls" to actually say "well should we break up"
Eventually after her crying for about an hour we decided that we should split-up.
It pisses me off, why can't we just agree. we aren't compatible like that. Now her friends are going to hate me cause I am a ---- and ultimately I'll lose her as a friend.
I can accept that. I suppose the hard part is that, except from a few friends, I have no support. My mom, ironically, just came into my room yelling at me saying how I don't treat her well enough and crap.
anyway...