ok , its a bit to big to read all of the posts but i readed a few of them
lets start with this small story that can explain a lot of things and is maybe easy to for some "resellers" under us
lets turn the time back a lot of time
before i started with webhosting was i just a freehoster ( a leecher from a freehost)
i got 300mb space and a bit of traffic , nice to train your skills with cpanel and so
after 3 months , i got a lot of friends and wanted to host them and want to earn a bit of cheap money , so i got myself a master reseller of a company i found
seems that it was a realy bad company (cheap but BAD )
1 day up and 2 days down , that all the time ... nice for you and your friend
funny part , 1 month goes great and then you can forget it , and no refund (you pay per year .. there goes your hard earned 40$)
ok , so i desided to move again and founded a other better reseller (after 3 rip offs) , a bit more expensive but a lot better , still some downtime but better (70$)
so , for a reselelr , you never know how trustworry they are , some are cheap and good , others are exensive and are realy bad
then after the resellers , i was tired of it that i coulnd do a thing , that i dont have root acces and stuff , so i desided to move to a vps
i learned to work with whm on the reseller because it is easy to learn there (exept that you are limited on the stuff you can do , but perfect for a basic of it )
after the vps , i learned to work complete with whm , setting up settups , working with ssh , installing and configuring firewalls , setting up your hardly security setting and so on
now , the vps is still in use (because paid for a year) and it still give trouble , but a bit less then a reseller but depending on company ofcourse
3 months it was going great , then it went down for a couple of times and then it goes great again , so up and down :S
because the downtime always tooks more then 2 days , so i desided to move to dedicated servers , tired of everything that goes down and so
now the problem , i know 2 company's that are doing fraude , you do a small order and it goes fine , you want to grow and do a big order and bang... game over ( ordered a server for a lot of money and i still dont have my server for about 6 months now .... check directclanhosting fraude and you know enouf )
so i looked again for other company's that could give me colo/dedi servers
i founded a great 1 and now i got about 3 differend servers
it is useless to go to colo if the price of a dedicated server is cheaper and easyer
specialy when you can make nice deals with your providers and that you can trust them
so to make a point
you need to start somewhere, and if you grow then you need to be carefully
because no1 can be trust and you need to do everything on your own if you want it great
els , do like life and take some risks
@toad
to answer your last thing you says
that a vps isnt secure
it is not completly true , depending on system you use to create vps systems
and how the system works
and it is still up to the buyer to protect the vps , its only to the server owner to protect the root
Thank you
Greets from The Crasher